This episode of Soulful Sunday explores the power of play.
Play is so important to optimal child development that it has been recognized by the United Nations as a right of every child. ~ Kenneth Ginsburg
Children learn (through play) critical life skills for mental, physical, emotional, social, cognitive, and communication development. A growing body of research (and my experience too) shows that play is equally important to adults. Play supports health, stress management, learning, and better relationships.
We get so caught up in our responsibilities that we forget to play, laugh, and enjoy life regardless of our circumstances. Play is defined as any activity done for pure enjoyment, rather than serious reasons or purpose. The danger in posts like mine is that we will add play to our growing To Do Lists! Then you face the paradox of wanting to play because you know it’s good for you. Or maybe you have enough kid spirit that you play just to play! If you want more reasons to add play to your list, here’s a good article on the 10 benefits of play. I found it very interesting that animals play and the smartest ones play more. Just think of dolphins dancing with waves, surfing, and other fun antics they’re known for.
In the article, Chris suggests making play a priority, pick activities you loved as a child (and still enjoy), and approach play with beginner’s mind.
According to Dr. Brad, play is good for the body, mind, and soul. When we play, we feel refreshed, restored, and full of life.
Potent people practice the power of play!
Great post. I am so happy that the importance of play is recognized.
Happy Sunday.
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Thanks Drew. I hope you add some play to your lonely heart musings. 🙂
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Smiling. Yes, I try. Thanks
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Yay!
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Great post 😁
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Thank you and welcome to my blog. May your week be full of play. 🙂
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Great post. Delightful photo of you and your nephew! Thanks for sharing, Brad.
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I’m glad you could play with us Cynthia! Happy Sunday… 🙂
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I agree Brad, we too often focus on doing something for a reason rather for enjoyment alone. When I paint and draw I try to do it for play rather than thinking each picture has to be perfect – I dreamt about painting last night which suggests to me I need to get painting again!
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Kudos on keeping play and joy alive in your painting and drawing Andrea. 🙂 I’ve been feeling an urge to draw again. I used to enjoy drawing as a child. Thanks for reminding me.
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I like your prescription, Dr Brad.
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Thanks Robbie. Take two giggles and a hug! 🙂
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I love this Brad. Love seeing you smiling face! Happy Sunday to you! 💜
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Thank you Michelle. It feels good to smile and play. 🙂
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I agree with you there Brad. I don’t do that enough but I’m going to start! (◡‿◡✿)
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Yay! (◡‿◡)
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Yay
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i love that photo of you and your nephew brad!!! i agree wholeheartedly with all that you shared here. such an important message!!! wishing you a playful sunday and then some!! weeeeeee! ❤
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Ha ha. Thanks for the laughs and weee Tania! 🙂
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😉 hehe! you’re welcome
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🙂
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Remember your parents your siblings oh how many memories play time refreshed and so relaxing
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Indeed. Family can be a great source of love and play!
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Really like your article Brad. The pic of you playing with your nephew is so adoring !!!
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Thank you Himani. I enjoy playing with my nephew.
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who wouldn’t he’s cute and so lovely…
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Yes Willie is a sweet child.
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Well played, my friend. 🤪 Hehe. I agree. We all need play. I play with my dog and cats, running circles around the house. Hehe. I “playfully torture” my spouse, in that I tickle him while sitting on the couch from time to time. I play games, and I make sure to laugh – at least a little every day. Sososo good for the soul. 🙂
In any case, I hope you’ve had a wonderful weekend. Sending hugs!
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Kudos Cynthia. It sounds like you’re a play master! 🙂 Maybe I’ll interview you for my follow up post. 🙂
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Reblogged this on Tania Marie and commented:
To celebrate the first blog back from The Writer’s Corner since my time away in Sedona, I’d like Monday’s Musings to kick off with the musings around the theme of “Play” because it truly is the cornerstone to well-being, balance, optimal living, and cultivating more creativity – IMHO. This is a great post by my sweet friend, Brad, that includes a wonderful article for both your inner child and children in your life to understand the importance of play in your and their lives.
I’ve heard recently from several friends that they struggle with wanting to experience more creativity, have blocks in terms of their writing and other projects, aren’t sure where to start in terms of their ideas and dreams, or feel challenged with experiencing joy and optimism in their lives.
I truly believe that play is so important to life and if it weren’t for my Peter-Pan syndrome refusing to “grow” up in the way others have accepted this to mean, I likely would feel all the same things too. Yet, I embrace singing, laughing, dancing, make-believing, making up stories, seeing through childlike eyes of wonder, believing in the magickal, seeing the glass half full, talking to myself and all the creatures of Mother Earth and the Otherworlds, recreating myself and my environment to match my heart’s joy, and embracing being silly despite others around me acting all “grown up”.
If you struggle with writing or feeling a block with your creativity, check out number eight of the ten benefits of play in the article within Brad’s blog post.
If you allow yourself to spread your wings beyond the boundaries conditioning has created and embrace having more fun, playing, and being silly now and then, you will definitely feel a difference in your life and experience it through different eyes as well.
Your projects, dreams, and writing will get a boost of freshness, as you reset a new way of being that embraces all those wonderful core parts of who you really are, rather than making them feel like they need to behave and have a life-long time out in the corner – remember, nobody puts Baby in the corner!
I hope this article helps inspire you to play more and make 2019 more joyous for you. I really do believe you’ll find your projects and life flowing and thriving more.
Here’s an accompanying short blog inspiration I shared before, with some quotes to inspire more play – https://taniamarieartist.wordpress.com/2017/11/13/play-more/
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Well done Tania! You covered the most important aspects of play; to feed our creativity and soul. Thank you. ❤
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aw, you’re welcome ❤ your words sparked the inspiration! thank YOU!!
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I love this. When I was in my 20s, I used to make my roommate color with me in a coloring book as we watched Saturday morning cartoons in our PJs. She used to laugh but was used to me being weird. I now see that I was trying to keep us creative and happy at a time when our “big” new jobs and adulthood could feel overwhelming. The pic of you and your nephew is adorable!
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Thank you Kristine. That’s a fun story. I’d like to do some coloring and drawing with friends in my PJs! Maybe I’ll do a modern version like the painting parties that are so popular now. 🙂
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Try it!
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Great post and so true. It has been an eye opener to me over the last two years, the more I play with our grand daughter….the more I feel myself relax and really enjoy the moment….as always great post and very informative!! Have a playful week!!
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I’m glad you’ve been enjoying the art of play Kirt! May you and your granddaughter find much joy and connection.
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Loved this Brad… as children all we did were Play, we couldn’t wait to get outdoors and use our imaginations, the broom would be a horse, the top of the steps on our garden would be the castle.. lol. Lots of fun. You and your nephew look to be having a giggle of a time..
And as adults its important for us to learn how to play. and let go of stress and worry…
I hope you enjoy more Play time Brad. 🙂
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Thanks Sue for playing along. 🙂 Playtime is needed to restore mind, body and soul. I love those times when I let go and play in the moment.
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Its a great release to just be Silly and act daft.. You should see my Barbie play time, I am always the ugly sister though, lol my granddaughter is always the princess, or the school teacher, while I am the bad girl in glass.. hehe… You have to love Imagination.. 😀
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How wonderful that you can play with your granddaughter so freely! Thanks for the fun image and smiles. 🙂
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Most Saturdays you will find me in barbie land for at least two hours lol. We make miniture school books and have competitions of maths and song writing ( exercising my granddaughters poetic skills.. Last week she wrote a small poem, she was going to turn into a song.. She asked me to print out six copies of her creative poem, So her school friends can practice.. Monday we picked her up from school and she told us her teacher said if they learn it off by heart and the music is good, they can sing it in assembly next Friday… She was over the moon and no doubt will enjoy being choir master to her school mates.. haha..
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Wow! Clearly she has a great imagination and a strong will. I hope she gets to play at being choir master! 🙂
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Me too lol.. 🙂
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🙂
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Yes, cheers to play!
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Thanks Neha. I hope your week is full of play. 🙂
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I’m still a kid at heart. 🙂
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Kudos Bernice and welcome. 🙂
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Glad to be here.
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Thank you.
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We talk about but to truly feel ourselves playing and having fun with our children brings us into the most beautiful space… and makes us think how we can stay! Thankyou for this lovely post Brad x 🌈💃🏼 love Barbara x
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Agreed Barbara. To let go and play with the zest and enthusiasm of a child is wonderful. 🌈💃🏼
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